Hi everybody, I'm completely new to this. Basically my mum has just been diagnosed with Alzheimers. She is 75 years old. I live with my mum and I have no brothers or sisters. It seems to have come on very quickly, as in the last 6 months. At the minute she is in hospital because I had to take her to casualty myself. She saw a psychogeriatrician on 20th May and he couldn't give a definite diagnosis because her answers fluctuated so much and he wanted to check her medical records for any other reasons for the confusion. After 2 weeks we still hadn't heard anything from him and I was at my wits end so took her to casualty myself to try to get and answer. She had been put on to Digoxin, (a heart tablet), in mid April and I honestly believe the confusion got a lot worse, but she has been off that now for 2 weeks and the confusion is still there.
Whilst at home she didn't believe she was in her own house and wanted me to take her home every night. She would say her Mum and Dad were coming for tea. She thought I was my cousin. She would be looking for my Dad who died in 1982. She would get really angry at night because I wouldn't take her home and then refuse to go to bed because "that's not my bed". Loads of other wee things too.
Now we are at the point were the hospital say she is medically fit for discharge. I work Full-time but have been off sick for the past two months with the stress of all this. Obviously my wage is the only wage coming into the house.
I had hoped for daycare for her but on really thinking about things, I don't know if I could cope with the night-times and also get back to work. A nursing home is the last thing I want to do but I feel like I have no choice as I have no family back-up.
Can anybody give me any advice please?
Whilst at home she didn't believe she was in her own house and wanted me to take her home every night. She would say her Mum and Dad were coming for tea. She thought I was my cousin. She would be looking for my Dad who died in 1982. She would get really angry at night because I wouldn't take her home and then refuse to go to bed because "that's not my bed". Loads of other wee things too.
Now we are at the point were the hospital say she is medically fit for discharge. I work Full-time but have been off sick for the past two months with the stress of all this. Obviously my wage is the only wage coming into the house.
I had hoped for daycare for her but on really thinking about things, I don't know if I could cope with the night-times and also get back to work. A nursing home is the last thing I want to do but I feel like I have no choice as I have no family back-up.
Can anybody give me any advice please?