I am Attorney for my Mum (EPA). She has a husband of 17 years (my step dad), who, recently retired has decided that he wants full control over Mum. This includes finances. He has cut off contact and has brainwashed Mum to not want to see me. I havent seen her now for two months.
I have contacted SS, her Dr and Alzheimers. All say take it one step at a time. But I miss her so much. SS are finally looking into her depbt (which I have uncovered recently £20,000!) I'm finding it really hard to prove that he is brainwashing her because she idolises him. With the Dr she is saying she doesnt want to see me. Dealing with her finances now is so difficult without any contact. She shouts at me that she wants her money!
It must be difficult for her husabnd too, as I have control of his wifes money. But that's what she wanted.
I'm struggling now to stay strong. If the SS get into the house and meet with her and she is saying she doesnt want me in her life - and they say its her in best interest for me to stay away. Can they do that? I'm only asking for a couple of hours a week. But my step dad has shouted furiously down the phone that I will never, ever see her again!
What do I do? Any ideas?
I have contacted SS, her Dr and Alzheimers. All say take it one step at a time. But I miss her so much. SS are finally looking into her depbt (which I have uncovered recently £20,000!) I'm finding it really hard to prove that he is brainwashing her because she idolises him. With the Dr she is saying she doesnt want to see me. Dealing with her finances now is so difficult without any contact. She shouts at me that she wants her money!
It must be difficult for her husabnd too, as I have control of his wifes money. But that's what she wanted.
I'm struggling now to stay strong. If the SS get into the house and meet with her and she is saying she doesnt want me in her life - and they say its her in best interest for me to stay away. Can they do that? I'm only asking for a couple of hours a week. But my step dad has shouted furiously down the phone that I will never, ever see her again!
What do I do? Any ideas?