Family issues arent getting any better after 16 months of sheer hell, intimidation and down right bullying have decided that they can have it. After having received COP paperwork from them stating that they want to take over and that they can do a better job than I ever have. I have decided they can have it. Im letting them take over sorting mum's affairs. Im not doing this lightly as it was never mum's wish but this is affecting my whole life its time I started to put me first. Mum's ok she is safe. They can see how everything is so easy to sort out (NOT)!!!!
Just by making this decision I'm feeling relief for the first time in such a long time.
It all came so blindingly obvious to me when it started to affect my marriage. Nothing is worth that - not for them anyway!!!
Need to ring the COP office on Tuesday and find out what I have to do. I dont want to be part of it any longer they can all of the dealings.
I just want to spend the rest of mum's days visiting and doing the usual things mums and daughters do - that wont ever change and they wont ever stop me visiting.
I just dont want anything to do with them. Dont want to speak to them or see them. It is just so upsetting that all they want to do is argue and pick fault. Where were they when mum needed help? Where were they when she was on the phone 24/7? Whennone of them would believe there was a problem - oh she's only putting it on for attention they said!!!!
Just by making this decision I'm feeling relief for the first time in such a long time.
It all came so blindingly obvious to me when it started to affect my marriage. Nothing is worth that - not for them anyway!!!
Need to ring the COP office on Tuesday and find out what I have to do. I dont want to be part of it any longer they can all of the dealings.
I just want to spend the rest of mum's days visiting and doing the usual things mums and daughters do - that wont ever change and they wont ever stop me visiting.
I just dont want anything to do with them. Dont want to speak to them or see them. It is just so upsetting that all they want to do is argue and pick fault. Where were they when mum needed help? Where were they when she was on the phone 24/7? Whennone of them would believe there was a problem - oh she's only putting it on for attention they said!!!!