Mom is having the cpn coming to see her on Wednesday,about some help with my dad. When i rang her asking her to come to see mom because she was now finding it difficut to cope, she asked me if i could be present when she comes to visit mom, as last time she came round to see her,[ 8 months ago ] she got the feeling from mom that she was copeing fine. I said i would be there. I wanted to know if mom would be able to have someone to come round to either bath or shower dad at least once a week. She said they don't do hands on. Can't they do this unless they are in a residential or nursing home? I thought i would wait till Wednesday, but its on my mind, as anyone got any idea's what she means about this? Janet