My 83 year old mother fractured her hip just before Christmas and has severe walking difficulties. Her memory had been degenerating before the accident and we had noticed a dramatic deterioration since her hospital and respite stay. She has now been diagnosed with Vascular Dementia. She is a gentle and sweet soul at the moment, can still recognise her family and remembers a lot of things but will forget obvious things such as not recognising her home when we took her back there for an assessment to see if she could return home. We are debating whether to find a care home for her (my dad is in a nursing home and very happy) or whether she should come and live with me as I work from home. I have 2 teenage children and a part-time business and we could do some work on the house to accomodate her. What are other people's experiences of caring for a dementia sufferer with walking difficulites? Am I taking on too much with 2 children and a business to run? I so desperately want to give her a loving home for her last few years and my sister's and I are struggling to decide if a care home, where she could possibly be with her husband (my dad) is the best solution where we could visit regularly and enjoy her company is best or a home environment where she would feel secure and loved and a part of a family still. Also, what support is available for carers looking after dementia sufferers in their home?