Hello, I wondered if anybody knew the best way to help my mother who is becoming increasingly depressed looking after my father.
He was disgnosed with alzheimers 2 years ago and has reached a stage now where he is so forgetful that he can't be left on his own for more than an hour at a time.
My mother is very distressed by his behaviour and is finding copeing on her own with him very lonely and difficult. I am getting phone calls from her most days crying over something he has done (throwing away important papers of hers, finding him drinking wine at 11am in the morning, refusing to leave the house to see the doctor, etc).
I think perhaps it would help her if I could arrange for a private carer to come in a few times a week to spend time with him and let her have some time off. It would hopefully also be of benefit to him as he is somewhat lacking in stimulation having lost interest in reading and watching tv.
Does anybody know if such a thing exists in south west London?
Any advice much appreciated.
I'm desperate to improve both of their qualities of life and think if i could find some relief/help for my mother she would cope far better with the periods when she has to look after my father.
I am doing what i can at weekend's but I have realised recently that this just isn't enough but with the long hours i'm desperate to find another way to help.
Many thanks in advance for any advice.
Ben
He was disgnosed with alzheimers 2 years ago and has reached a stage now where he is so forgetful that he can't be left on his own for more than an hour at a time.
My mother is very distressed by his behaviour and is finding copeing on her own with him very lonely and difficult. I am getting phone calls from her most days crying over something he has done (throwing away important papers of hers, finding him drinking wine at 11am in the morning, refusing to leave the house to see the doctor, etc).
I think perhaps it would help her if I could arrange for a private carer to come in a few times a week to spend time with him and let her have some time off. It would hopefully also be of benefit to him as he is somewhat lacking in stimulation having lost interest in reading and watching tv.
Does anybody know if such a thing exists in south west London?
Any advice much appreciated.
I'm desperate to improve both of their qualities of life and think if i could find some relief/help for my mother she would cope far better with the periods when she has to look after my father.
I am doing what i can at weekend's but I have realised recently that this just isn't enough but with the long hours i'm desperate to find another way to help.
Many thanks in advance for any advice.
Ben