My mum and sister seem to believe my dad is alot worse than he is...they talk to him like he is "slow" (excuse the ignorance in language) but he is not at all...he takes time to get things done but he does not need to be spoken to like a 5year old
Its very upsetting and they tell me I'm in denial, but, I was up town with him and he recognised everyone (old friends chatting away about their families) he goes to the shop (across the road) alone to get the morning papers and he can do normal tasks, getting dressed, emptying the dishwasher etc...
I know the diagnosis is hard to come to terms with, but how do I convince my mum and sister they are not going the right way about his care? we should be spending time together, instead its constant "meetings" about how ill dad is...
any advice on how to handle this?
Its very upsetting and they tell me I'm in denial, but, I was up town with him and he recognised everyone (old friends chatting away about their families) he goes to the shop (across the road) alone to get the morning papers and he can do normal tasks, getting dressed, emptying the dishwasher etc...
I know the diagnosis is hard to come to terms with, but how do I convince my mum and sister they are not going the right way about his care? we should be spending time together, instead its constant "meetings" about how ill dad is...
any advice on how to handle this?