Hello all,
I'm sorry to say that I failed Mary at the meeting today.
Out of the blue her son who only ever contacted his mum to scrounge money and has never paid her a penny back arrived with a daughter who "fell out" with Mary twenty years ago,plus a daughter who lives 5 minutes away and only ever scrounged off her mum turned up at the meeting and systamatically ganged up against me and the one daughter that genuinely cared for her and had Mary consigned to a residential home.
Mary has always been terrified of going to a home as it had been used as a weapon by her "loving" family in the past when she had falls. "Oh don't be stupid Mother or you'll be locked up in a home"
Mary's younger brother lives in a Sheltered Housing complex nearer to where they intend to send Mary some twenty miles away in Aylesbury. So he is going to see if I can transfer there.
They say I can visit her as much as I like and even stay overnight If I wish. But it not the same. Why can't they let us be together till the end? Its what she wanted.
She ask me to marry her when she was in hospital last year I said yes but somehow we never got around to it. I am a fool !
I'm sorry I can't go on at present. I'll fill you in on the meeting tomorrow;. WHY WHY WHY
Bryan
I'm sorry to say that I failed Mary at the meeting today.
Out of the blue her son who only ever contacted his mum to scrounge money and has never paid her a penny back arrived with a daughter who "fell out" with Mary twenty years ago,plus a daughter who lives 5 minutes away and only ever scrounged off her mum turned up at the meeting and systamatically ganged up against me and the one daughter that genuinely cared for her and had Mary consigned to a residential home.
Mary has always been terrified of going to a home as it had been used as a weapon by her "loving" family in the past when she had falls. "Oh don't be stupid Mother or you'll be locked up in a home"
Mary's younger brother lives in a Sheltered Housing complex nearer to where they intend to send Mary some twenty miles away in Aylesbury. So he is going to see if I can transfer there.
They say I can visit her as much as I like and even stay overnight If I wish. But it not the same. Why can't they let us be together till the end? Its what she wanted.
She ask me to marry her when she was in hospital last year I said yes but somehow we never got around to it. I am a fool !
I'm sorry I can't go on at present. I'll fill you in on the meeting tomorrow;. WHY WHY WHY
Bryan