I know there is another thread about male incontinence, but it has prompted me to ask about my worries about my mum. I have been aware that she has had some 'leakage problems' since Christmas when she stayed with us, after which time I took her to the GP. As expected, mum denied having any problems, but somehow I managed to get a urine sample to give him, after which he prescribed her Tolterodine.
Having recently moved nearer to me and therefore I am able to see her a lot more frequently, I realise that she is struggling to hold urine in once she has decided that she needs the toilet.
I was wondering if anyone has any advice/tips on the best way to go about dealing with this. I'm guessing I should take her to see her new GP or should I find out if there is an incontinence nurse first. I must admit I find it embarrassing, but I know I need to get her sorted out with a system that will enable her to keep her dignity. (It is a sensitive subject but she does sometimes mention it to me herself, so I hope that she will now accept some help from the Dr or nurse). Up to now I have been making sure there is always a good supply of pads on show in her bathroom, prompt her to use them and prompt her to change and wash!!
I have always tried to make sure she is in clean pants, tights and clothes but admit it is becoming more of a problem. Is it something that usually creeps up like this, or is this just my mum? I need to help her but don't really know what to do next.
Thanks for any help you can give.
Gill x
Having recently moved nearer to me and therefore I am able to see her a lot more frequently, I realise that she is struggling to hold urine in once she has decided that she needs the toilet.
I was wondering if anyone has any advice/tips on the best way to go about dealing with this. I'm guessing I should take her to see her new GP or should I find out if there is an incontinence nurse first. I must admit I find it embarrassing, but I know I need to get her sorted out with a system that will enable her to keep her dignity. (It is a sensitive subject but she does sometimes mention it to me herself, so I hope that she will now accept some help from the Dr or nurse). Up to now I have been making sure there is always a good supply of pads on show in her bathroom, prompt her to use them and prompt her to change and wash!!
I have always tried to make sure she is in clean pants, tights and clothes but admit it is becoming more of a problem. Is it something that usually creeps up like this, or is this just my mum? I need to help her but don't really know what to do next.
Thanks for any help you can give.
Gill x