I have not been on here for sometime now but I am at a loss as to which way to turn.....My mother was originally diagnosed with the onset of Alzheimer's last July. Since that time she has been in a psychiatric unit on several occasions with bad depression loss of appetite and no interest in going out. My father is 88 and has Paget's disease and he is finding it very difficult to cope with mum. I moved to Yorkshire 23 years ago and they live in London, my mother seems to think I moved away recently from them, abandoning them in their old age! She apparently goes on & on about this plus the fact that she dislikes my husband from 7am until she goes to bed at night. She rings me nearly everyday to either say " I never want to speak to you or see you again" and not to go to her funeral or my dads! Then, I will get a phone call saying she is sorry and she loves me but I still should not have left them.....
I have been off work myself with stress and find myself crying a lot these days. My dad has threatened suicide or to walk out & now he's saying she needs to go in somewhere to be cared for, this makes me feel very guilty and upset! I went down to help them in May but while I was there I fell in the street, broke my ankle in 3 places and ended up in hospital for over a week. I had to have surgery & I am immobile so I cannot drive or get around to go down and take some of the pressure off poor dad!
Sorry for going on and on but I need to get this off my chest
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I have been off work myself with stress and find myself crying a lot these days. My dad has threatened suicide or to walk out & now he's saying she needs to go in somewhere to be cared for, this makes me feel very guilty and upset! I went down to help them in May but while I was there I fell in the street, broke my ankle in 3 places and ended up in hospital for over a week. I had to have surgery & I am immobile so I cannot drive or get around to go down and take some of the pressure off poor dad!
Sorry for going on and on but I need to get this off my chest
xx