It has been a hard few days. I posted about mum being ill at weekend.......
http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/talkingpoint/discuss/showthread.php?t=15519
She has been up and down today, she is a bit more alert and at one point today the nurse was thinking of maybe getting her out of bed onto a chair . Tonight when I went to see her I could acually hear her gasping for breath before I even opened her bedroom door. Her breathing was very irractic and after the staff moved her up a bit in the bed it helped a little. I could not belive how a few hours made such a difference. I know this is probally how it will be now.
My problem is I am so tired, all I seem to have done for days is cry, go to see mum , come home and cook, go to see mum , come home go to bed and cry.
This morning it was a case of " I do not wnat to go see her" I did though, 4 times today for about 1.5 to 2 hours each time. The home is only about 2 miles away so not a great distance but it's the driving, parking, walking. Her home is in town centre and no car park, so have to park and walk past shops and people. Ok this is not a big problem for most but I suffer from bad anxiety and panic attacks and by the time I get to the home/car each time I feel like I have walked for miles.
I do not sleep well and have been worst over last few days, I just want to go to bed and stay there but can't. Tomorrow is looming, sorry today I should say and have to do it all again.
Sorry for the moan but does anyone else get fed up with the running back and forward? I know I should be greatful mum is still here and in a way I am, I just hate seeing her suffer and not being able to do anything. She cannot tell me if she is hurting, she cannot tell me how she feels, I feel helpless.
http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/talkingpoint/discuss/showthread.php?t=15519
She has been up and down today, she is a bit more alert and at one point today the nurse was thinking of maybe getting her out of bed onto a chair . Tonight when I went to see her I could acually hear her gasping for breath before I even opened her bedroom door. Her breathing was very irractic and after the staff moved her up a bit in the bed it helped a little. I could not belive how a few hours made such a difference. I know this is probally how it will be now.
My problem is I am so tired, all I seem to have done for days is cry, go to see mum , come home and cook, go to see mum , come home go to bed and cry.
This morning it was a case of " I do not wnat to go see her" I did though, 4 times today for about 1.5 to 2 hours each time. The home is only about 2 miles away so not a great distance but it's the driving, parking, walking. Her home is in town centre and no car park, so have to park and walk past shops and people. Ok this is not a big problem for most but I suffer from bad anxiety and panic attacks and by the time I get to the home/car each time I feel like I have walked for miles.
I do not sleep well and have been worst over last few days, I just want to go to bed and stay there but can't. Tomorrow is looming, sorry today I should say and have to do it all again.
Sorry for the moan but does anyone else get fed up with the running back and forward? I know I should be greatful mum is still here and in a way I am, I just hate seeing her suffer and not being able to do anything. She cannot tell me if she is hurting, she cannot tell me how she feels, I feel helpless.