My mother is uncooperative regarding baths and changing clothes by her carers and since having a bath seat installed last October they have bathed her once and helped her with a basin wash 3 times. They don't even wash her hair, which usually looks greasy and clothes go unchanged. Being a son, I can't really help in any practical way with bathing.
The carers say that if she doesn't want a bath, that's her choice and that seems to be that as far as they are concerned. My daughter does manage to get Mum into the bath with some gentle but firm coaxing, but she doesn't live near enough to do this other than occasionally.
I would like to hear other's experiences. Is the carers position acceptable? They have made no suggestions as to how the situation may be tackled and I would like Mum to have at least one bath a week.
I feel with rota of 12+ different people looking after her (she has a visit once a day) this doesn't help. They also arrive after she is up and dressed and take her word that she has washed or bathed when a dry flannel and bathroom indicate otherwise.
The carers say that if she doesn't want a bath, that's her choice and that seems to be that as far as they are concerned. My daughter does manage to get Mum into the bath with some gentle but firm coaxing, but she doesn't live near enough to do this other than occasionally.
I would like to hear other's experiences. Is the carers position acceptable? They have made no suggestions as to how the situation may be tackled and I would like Mum to have at least one bath a week.
I feel with rota of 12+ different people looking after her (she has a visit once a day) this doesn't help. They also arrive after she is up and dressed and take her word that she has washed or bathed when a dry flannel and bathroom indicate otherwise.