so I went and got my dad and danced with him around the lounge for 5 minutes, while the gentleman played some lovely classical music. My god it was so amazing
What a lovely memory for you to have, it is amazing how music is such a good positive simulation, my mother also will get up dance with me slowly but has to lean on Zimmer frame now.
Im going to take mum and baby to the new forest in a couple of weeks for a little break, and its only an hour down the road so we can still see dad every other day. stay in a nice timber lodge with a spa and restaurants for some mummy daughter time. We'll see if that helps.
if you mother does not want to go every other day, don't worry about it .don't get upset with her if she still does not want to visit, Just let her do it in her own time when she feel ready emotionally.
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yes mum is on Metazapan, shes just changed over from Venlaflaxin, Dr said stop for two days then start on Metazapan. Its gone from bad to worse, i keep saying to her to remember its the drugs that are making her feel like this. I will go and spend the next few days with her, but shes getting really stroppy and upset with me. I can do no right anywhere at the moment
my – be she just needs real time out in a nice environment to gather her thoughts emotion together , without the added worry guilt of not visiting your father . Then see how she feel after the 2 weeks with you .
i keep saying to her to remember its the drugs that are making her feel like this.
Also the emotion of how her changing relationship is with her husband, how they life has change together.
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