Just looking for a bit of advice.
This week the hospital said Mum was fit to leave hospital and so Social Services told us to select a care home for her.
Whilst we were visiting a Care Home for a viewing yesterday afternoon we received a call from another Care home to say our Mum had just arrived with them in an Ambulance.
We had visited this particular Care Home but they knew we were still looking and hadn't made a decision.
Anyway obviously we were straight on to Social Services to find out what on earth was going on. She said she didn't know her boss had made a decision on Thursday when she wasn't at work and now her boss was off work (on Friday)
We have chosen the Care Home we want which isn't where she is and Social Services have agreed to arrange for this Care Home to carry out an assessment.
The advice we want is what position we can take regarding this enforced move. We have no agreement with this Care home and so don't see why we should be liable for any top up fees nor do we feel our 12 week disregard should start until she has been moved to the Care home we agree.
Has any one had any experience of this and what can we expect? Apart from the outrageous situation of dumping a confused dementia person in this way it is blatently obvious that the actions of Social Services are to avoid them paying the £100 bed blocking charge but what chances have we got to avoid them passing on this liability to us.
Many thanks
This week the hospital said Mum was fit to leave hospital and so Social Services told us to select a care home for her.
Whilst we were visiting a Care Home for a viewing yesterday afternoon we received a call from another Care home to say our Mum had just arrived with them in an Ambulance.
We had visited this particular Care Home but they knew we were still looking and hadn't made a decision.
Anyway obviously we were straight on to Social Services to find out what on earth was going on. She said she didn't know her boss had made a decision on Thursday when she wasn't at work and now her boss was off work (on Friday)
We have chosen the Care Home we want which isn't where she is and Social Services have agreed to arrange for this Care Home to carry out an assessment.
The advice we want is what position we can take regarding this enforced move. We have no agreement with this Care home and so don't see why we should be liable for any top up fees nor do we feel our 12 week disregard should start until she has been moved to the Care home we agree.
Has any one had any experience of this and what can we expect? Apart from the outrageous situation of dumping a confused dementia person in this way it is blatently obvious that the actions of Social Services are to avoid them paying the £100 bed blocking charge but what chances have we got to avoid them passing on this liability to us.
Many thanks