Hi, can anyone help? My mum has always been a picky eater but now it's got to the stage where she refuses most food. Dad feeds her 2 very soggy weetabix in the morning and she'll accept half a bowl of tomato soup at lunch, but come tea time.....
I always go in after work to feed mum so dad can eat his dinner while it's hot. More often than not mum gets tearful if made to eat more than a couple of mouthfuls and dad gets cross and upset because not eating is making her weaker presumably. She's been prescribed Fortisip (a protein drink) by the doctor and has 1 a day. Getting her to drink this, or anything else is a struggle as well. When it comes to her tea, I try to coax her to eat and usually manage to get her to eat a small portion of mash, say. It's all food which is easy to eat as she has few teeth. But when she's adamant she's had enough I leave it because I don't want her in tears and if she's having weetabix, soup and a protein drink when she's bedbound, at least that's some nutrition inside her. Am I doing the right thing? I really don't want to starve my mum but I don't want to force her to eat either. I'd be really grateful for some opinions here.
Many thanks
Vonny
I always go in after work to feed mum so dad can eat his dinner while it's hot. More often than not mum gets tearful if made to eat more than a couple of mouthfuls and dad gets cross and upset because not eating is making her weaker presumably. She's been prescribed Fortisip (a protein drink) by the doctor and has 1 a day. Getting her to drink this, or anything else is a struggle as well. When it comes to her tea, I try to coax her to eat and usually manage to get her to eat a small portion of mash, say. It's all food which is easy to eat as she has few teeth. But when she's adamant she's had enough I leave it because I don't want her in tears and if she's having weetabix, soup and a protein drink when she's bedbound, at least that's some nutrition inside her. Am I doing the right thing? I really don't want to starve my mum but I don't want to force her to eat either. I'd be really grateful for some opinions here.
Many thanks
Vonny