Experiences / suggestions with interfering family.
Their visits/phone contact have created Mum problems.
Mum has suffered Panic Attacks, fallen 2x after spiralling agitation for days, or started packing clothes for a trip.
Increased Mum's medication from 25 mg to 100 mg after this family contact increased.
They take no responsibility : This is the ALZ, not them.
They refuse to believe us. They didn't witness it.
During visits Mum seems happy, but we see her nervous laughter is covering her confusion. They ask too many questions.
After, we are on damage control - HIGH.
Many questions, or unreasonable requests/ demands from Mum.
We see her yearn to be normal and have her prior life back.
We all wish that.
They have always been domineering. Possible there is more Alz in that side of the family, cousins are not stepping in to help their parents. They just want to visit their Sister?
They feel we are isolating Mum, she needs the love of family. Mum has plenty of vistors with her own children, grandchildren. She does best being in her Daily Routine and socializing with her NEW friends at the facility. It is wonderful she has made friends there.
We are trying supervised visits 2x month
We have blocked phone numbers. Zero phone calls for them.
My friend told me: IT IS TIME TO PRUNE THE FAMILY TREE.
Anyone else have interfering family?
Their visits/phone contact have created Mum problems.
Mum has suffered Panic Attacks, fallen 2x after spiralling agitation for days, or started packing clothes for a trip.
Increased Mum's medication from 25 mg to 100 mg after this family contact increased.
They take no responsibility : This is the ALZ, not them.
They refuse to believe us. They didn't witness it.
During visits Mum seems happy, but we see her nervous laughter is covering her confusion. They ask too many questions.
After, we are on damage control - HIGH.
Many questions, or unreasonable requests/ demands from Mum.
We see her yearn to be normal and have her prior life back.
We all wish that.
They have always been domineering. Possible there is more Alz in that side of the family, cousins are not stepping in to help their parents. They just want to visit their Sister?
They feel we are isolating Mum, she needs the love of family. Mum has plenty of vistors with her own children, grandchildren. She does best being in her Daily Routine and socializing with her NEW friends at the facility. It is wonderful she has made friends there.
We are trying supervised visits 2x month
We have blocked phone numbers. Zero phone calls for them.
My friend told me: IT IS TIME TO PRUNE THE FAMILY TREE.
Anyone else have interfering family?
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