hello all....... I've just heard that my mother has been put on morphine patches to ease the pain they think she's suffering from....she has bursitis on her bottom and I noticed her flinching a lot when the nurses moved her to her wheelchair to go to the bathroom or whatever.... she's 91 and marvellous really - still tries to repeat what we say when we go to see her...... I last saw my mother towards the middle of August and had some quite good visits but now I've heard from one of my sisters that she's had another fall (that makes 3 since the hip operation).
She' s quite lucid though and knows family members....... and even says how she takes her tea - milk and sugar thank you.
Can you give me any suggestions as to what this will mean, you see she can't actually say she's in pain and as she'd been so agitated they realised she was in pain and calling out for her mother as she does....... and help me , help me......
My poor mother , the most giving person you can imagine......and what does she get - this agonising illness.
I wonder if they'll just use a couple of patches and see how it goes , then try and wean her off them.......you see she doesn't respond well to pain killers at all!
Even last year when she was better.... and she's SO thin, it's awful to see her like that - as last year she was a lovely size and much much better , relatively speaking of course.
My sister was very helpful and said (I phoned) she'd let me know at the end of the weekend how things are.
bye for now,
mailife49
She' s quite lucid though and knows family members....... and even says how she takes her tea - milk and sugar thank you.
Can you give me any suggestions as to what this will mean, you see she can't actually say she's in pain and as she'd been so agitated they realised she was in pain and calling out for her mother as she does....... and help me , help me......
My poor mother , the most giving person you can imagine......and what does she get - this agonising illness.
I wonder if they'll just use a couple of patches and see how it goes , then try and wean her off them.......you see she doesn't respond well to pain killers at all!
Even last year when she was better.... and she's SO thin, it's awful to see her like that - as last year she was a lovely size and much much better , relatively speaking of course.
My sister was very helpful and said (I phoned) she'd let me know at the end of the weekend how things are.
bye for now,
mailife49