Hi, I'm new - and dont know where to start.- learning to cope
Hi, I have been reading the board for a few days and just felt I didnt know where to start - so much has happened over the last few months.
My mum was diagnosed last week with Alz/Vascular dementia, after months of tests, scans etc.
We knew this may have been what was causing her bizarre and distressing behaviour - now its confirmed.
One of the things that we are finding it so hard to cope with is continuous repetitive questions. Mum is a smoker and is asking for a cigarette every 2 minutes. Sometimes she has one in her hand when she asks. She also wants a cup of tea one after the other. Mum gets frustrated and angry, shouting when we try to explain that her cigarettes need to be spaced out. She keeps saying "I want my life back".
Having somewhere to come for support and guidance is so helpful.
So much more, but maybe that's enough for now,
Thank you,
Kay.
(Gabriella is my user name, I chose it because I have given my mum an angel that we have called Gabriella - she sleeps with it under her pillow )
Hi, I have been reading the board for a few days and just felt I didnt know where to start - so much has happened over the last few months.
My mum was diagnosed last week with Alz/Vascular dementia, after months of tests, scans etc.
We knew this may have been what was causing her bizarre and distressing behaviour - now its confirmed.
One of the things that we are finding it so hard to cope with is continuous repetitive questions. Mum is a smoker and is asking for a cigarette every 2 minutes. Sometimes she has one in her hand when she asks. She also wants a cup of tea one after the other. Mum gets frustrated and angry, shouting when we try to explain that her cigarettes need to be spaced out. She keeps saying "I want my life back".
Having somewhere to come for support and guidance is so helpful.
So much more, but maybe that's enough for now,
Thank you,
Kay.
(Gabriella is my user name, I chose it because I have given my mum an angel that we have called Gabriella - she sleeps with it under her pillow )
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