I have looked up the site for the first time tonight because I have had a particularly hard day. My husband has vascular dementia - fairly early stages. We see a consultant every six months and he has all the medicines possible to slow the problem, I think. Usually we cope pretty well. I am hoping for advice on coping strategies as I feel a bit lost at the moment. He is usually unsure of what day it is and arrangements are difficult for him, but we cope quite well with these. Just at the moment I'm finding it difficult because he's always (hourly) asking if there's anything he can do. I try to find things but it's not always possible and he often can't remember the details of the job when I do find one. The other thing that is new and hard for me is that he's more bad-tempered and has started to say he doesn't need help.Is there anyone out there with advice for me? Catherineh