My Dad has been having memory problems for a couple of years, my Mum has been covering up for him! About 5 weeks ago he came down with the flu like bug and was very ill, my Sister, 48 who has Downes Syndrome lives at home with my Mum caring for her, Christmas day my sister came down with Chicken Pox! Since Dad got the flu bug the AD seems to have galloped (it was only diagnosed as AD today)! My Dad is 84, my Mum 82, my brother died 2 years ago, I was diagnosed with MS 8 years ago and I don't know how much more my Mum can take! She needs help with personal care for Dad but Dad is likely to refuse it! Mum is a prisoner in her own home, she needs to get out but won't have a sitter (stranger in the house) I work so can't help during the week, I'm at my wits end, what on earth do I do, Age Concern have not returned my calls I just don't know who can help if my Dad won't accept it, any advice welcomed!
Sue
Sue