Yesterday - today - tomorrow
Not hope for tomorrow, Margarita, just hope of a tomorrow. Different.
If we are all the ‘creator of our own reality’ then why is the reality of many of us on TP so absolutely effing awful?
For the simple reason that others have intervened in our past to create such an almighty effing awful chaos in the world of dementia And have also intervened in whatever we may have wished - and still wish - to ‘create for our own reality, and for our own tomorrow’. For the present and future of those with dementia, into whose lives others intervene. Creating often maximum chaos all round, not just for them, but for those of us who care about them.
We are not in control of our own reality, nor in control of our own tomorrow, especially if we have to rely on ‘services’ provided by ‘experts’. Ok, great for all those who have great services being provided by great experts, but for those of us not in that comfortable position, then our reality is totally different. And beyond our immediate control.
So, what do those ‘in control of their own reality’ and the ‘creators of their own reality’ do when things go totally pear shaped? Which they may not have done for you yet, but they may do in the future. What are we to do? Sit back, and say well, it’s all down to us because we were the creators of our own reality? No! No way.
Twinone, you are further forward into the future of your own experience than I am, dealing with the **** of recent months. So thanks for your own personal optimism, although I don’t have a son/daughter alive and able to help, nor a niece or nephew, so my apologies for my feelings of unseasonal doom and gloom.
Nor can I grieve for my departed dogs/cats/animals/pets.
Nor am I sitting in buckets of tears, (almost typed spitting there!), on this ‘supposedly special’ day (too right, hazytron, supposedly).
Nor am I beaten by dementia … yet.
But dementia can still take my breath away, on any given day.
If only amazon.co.uk held the secret – you can read many ‘meaning of life’ books, and having read a good fair number of them, then I can only suggest that there is no magic secret held by amazon.co.uk. Nor by any so-called philosopher … yet. Perhaps s/he may emerge, at some point in our “tomorrow”, but so far … no sign of him/her. Unless, of course, you know better.
We all live our own ‘reality’ and make out our own ‘meaning of life’. It is guaranteed to be different from ‘yours’; whether or not you have buddies knocking on your door day in, day out – many are not in that cosy situation; for those who are comforted by the odd half-hour great, so be it, but others may need more.
The reality is different for each and every one of us.
As may also be our own perception of our own tomorrow. Or the lack of that perception on any given day.
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