A plea to my forum friends for your thoughts, experiences and advice on this one please...
Brief overview: My wife (aged 70, Alzheimers diagnosis 3 years ago), my father (aged 92, super-fit for his age, lives by himself) - Me, aged 60.
Although Dad is 92, he is fantastic for his age, but I know that realistically over the next few years, he will start to become frail and need me more. At the moment, I travel two hours, once a week to see him.
I also obviously look after my wife 24/7 and I also know that over the next few years, it is going to become even harder than it currently is to look after her - couple that with my dads needs and I have a double-whammy coming along shortly.
So, idea is to move Dad in with us (house is big enough with spare rooms) - Selfishly, I will have dad to help me a little, but he will also be looked after. I will have them both under one roof and it will either be easier for me - or it will kill me off!
What do you think...
Brief overview: My wife (aged 70, Alzheimers diagnosis 3 years ago), my father (aged 92, super-fit for his age, lives by himself) - Me, aged 60.
Although Dad is 92, he is fantastic for his age, but I know that realistically over the next few years, he will start to become frail and need me more. At the moment, I travel two hours, once a week to see him.
I also obviously look after my wife 24/7 and I also know that over the next few years, it is going to become even harder than it currently is to look after her - couple that with my dads needs and I have a double-whammy coming along shortly.
So, idea is to move Dad in with us (house is big enough with spare rooms) - Selfishly, I will have dad to help me a little, but he will also be looked after. I will have them both under one roof and it will either be easier for me - or it will kill me off!
What do you think...