I'm really finding evenings difficult now. My partner is rarely interested in the TV, he'll often spend the evening 'talking', it's just an obsessive monologue, often the same every night - currently he's obsessing about money, constantly asking how much he has and going on and on about going to his bank and asking me where it is and can I help him by taking him there. Time and again I've asked him why he needs to go to the bank, shown him the money in his wallet and the card he can use to pay for things if he needs anything, I've shown him his bank balances on internet banking and even printed statements off for him. But it's pointless because of course he doesn't understand and doesn't remember, so next evening we have to go over it all again! It's driving me mad, how can I deal with this every evening from now till .... when? Also driving me nuts is that every time I get up to do something he'll get up as well, I can't go up and clean up the kitchen without him following me. It's the same in the daytime though, I have things to do but can't do anything because he has nothing to do and just won't sit down if I'm in another room trying to work, clean or whatever. How do others deal with these behaviours?