My Mum has had a bad cough and one of the carers, my sister and I wanted my brother to arrange for Mum to see GP.
My brother is regarded by NHS and social services as my Mum's primary carer, as he lives in same property, and my sister and I live hundreds of miles away.
My brother decided that the cough was attention seeking and declared that was his view and that he would not change his mind.
Fortunately the cough is getting better.
But at what stage would something like this became an issue, and what are my options for doing something about it?
Or should I butt out?
As Mum has several care visits a day, should I take the view that the carers (as they see Mum each day) are the best ones to form a view as to whether Mum should see a GP?
If the carer then alerts my brother and he does not arrange for Mum to see GP, then does the carer have a duty of care to raise it with their management?
And once notified does the management of care agency then have a duty of care to follow through?
I very little influence over my brother and if pushed he can be one of the most stubborn people on the planet.
So I don't want to risk making things worse for Mum.
Jackie
My brother is regarded by NHS and social services as my Mum's primary carer, as he lives in same property, and my sister and I live hundreds of miles away.
My brother decided that the cough was attention seeking and declared that was his view and that he would not change his mind.
Fortunately the cough is getting better.
But at what stage would something like this became an issue, and what are my options for doing something about it?
Or should I butt out?
As Mum has several care visits a day, should I take the view that the carers (as they see Mum each day) are the best ones to form a view as to whether Mum should see a GP?
If the carer then alerts my brother and he does not arrange for Mum to see GP, then does the carer have a duty of care to raise it with their management?
And once notified does the management of care agency then have a duty of care to follow through?
I very little influence over my brother and if pushed he can be one of the most stubborn people on the planet.
So I don't want to risk making things worse for Mum.
Jackie