Hi everyone
I’ve just created an account on here as looking for support
I had suspected for the last couple years that my Mum may have dementia but she refused tests and my sisters were dismissive. Last month she was hospitalised after a fall at home and she is still in hospital. We now have a confirmed diagnosis of dementia and she won’t be safe to go home. So it’s gone very quickly from living completely independently (with issues) to now looking for long term care. None of my friends my age have parents with dementia or going into care homes so I just feel a bit lost and looking for moral support! It’s also bringing out tensions within our family - older siblings have POA so are making all the decisions. Which is fine, but they aren’t communicating updates effectively (found out my Mum had another fall in hospital - but they told me 3 days after it happened) so any ideas about managing better communication be welcome too. Thanks
I’ve just created an account on here as looking for support
I had suspected for the last couple years that my Mum may have dementia but she refused tests and my sisters were dismissive. Last month she was hospitalised after a fall at home and she is still in hospital. We now have a confirmed diagnosis of dementia and she won’t be safe to go home. So it’s gone very quickly from living completely independently (with issues) to now looking for long term care. None of my friends my age have parents with dementia or going into care homes so I just feel a bit lost and looking for moral support! It’s also bringing out tensions within our family - older siblings have POA so are making all the decisions. Which is fine, but they aren’t communicating updates effectively (found out my Mum had another fall in hospital - but they told me 3 days after it happened) so any ideas about managing better communication be welcome too. Thanks