Rather belatedly we are applying for the health LPA for my father but have come to what seems like an impasse.
My father is still able to make his own decisions and he is adamant that he should not be put in a care home as his dementia progresses. But the unavoidable reality is that with my mother as the only carer, who herself has failing health, there is no realistic way for her to care for him as time goes on and a care home would seem the only realistic alternative.
So, my dad would like to add in the LPA that he should not be put in a care home but the reality is that we can't guarantee that. Is there any way around this in terms of achieving a workable health LPA?
My father is still able to make his own decisions and he is adamant that he should not be put in a care home as his dementia progresses. But the unavoidable reality is that with my mother as the only carer, who herself has failing health, there is no realistic way for her to care for him as time goes on and a care home would seem the only realistic alternative.
So, my dad would like to add in the LPA that he should not be put in a care home but the reality is that we can't guarantee that. Is there any way around this in terms of achieving a workable health LPA?