My mother in law, currently undiagnosed because we are still waiting for her health card (it should arrive in two weeks) as she moved to France to live next door to us in March - the move caused some upset but the excitement of moving into her own apartment seemed to keep her going - I won't say it was easy but it was what it was and had to be as she could not stay in the UK living on her own. She was booked in for a memory test but she ended up moving to France before that date due to the timing of various things - our work schedule.
On Tuesday we received some sad news that her cousin had died, they were like sisters, this has caused great upset and she seems to have taken a massive downward spiral. We keep saying we realise it is a shock - it wasn't really as the cousin had been ill for years but she can't remember that.
Last night she had a very honest conversation about her memory with us and she can't even remember her daughter coming at the weekend even though she knows she did because she keeps a diary. She thinks it has just happened, but her memory has been failing her quite some time. She plays spider solitaire for hours on end, writes in her diary although the entries are slightly crazy or very short ie 'it was sunny today' and she can still manage facebook although the posts are random code like words which only those close to her would understand.
We tried reassuring her last night that she didn't need to remember things and she should calm down and stop putting herself under so much pressure to remember because of the shock of the cousin. She asked her if there was a name for it - we said she needs to visit a doctor and be assessed. Is there anything we can do to help her get through this stage without it getting worse?
Also if anyone else has experience of getting an assessment in France we would welcome your advice.
Thanks
On Tuesday we received some sad news that her cousin had died, they were like sisters, this has caused great upset and she seems to have taken a massive downward spiral. We keep saying we realise it is a shock - it wasn't really as the cousin had been ill for years but she can't remember that.
Last night she had a very honest conversation about her memory with us and she can't even remember her daughter coming at the weekend even though she knows she did because she keeps a diary. She thinks it has just happened, but her memory has been failing her quite some time. She plays spider solitaire for hours on end, writes in her diary although the entries are slightly crazy or very short ie 'it was sunny today' and she can still manage facebook although the posts are random code like words which only those close to her would understand.
We tried reassuring her last night that she didn't need to remember things and she should calm down and stop putting herself under so much pressure to remember because of the shock of the cousin. She asked her if there was a name for it - we said she needs to visit a doctor and be assessed. Is there anything we can do to help her get through this stage without it getting worse?
Also if anyone else has experience of getting an assessment in France we would welcome your advice.
Thanks