My Dad was diagnosed with Alzeimer's at the beginning of the year but has declined rapidly. He has moved counties since being diagnosed and 'lost' in the system of being assessed. I have had no advice about LPA and although I have had the forms filled in for months, my Dad cannot now sign them without a witness (Drs) if the Drs agree to do this (at a charge). Has anyone else been in this situation?
Unusually, he lives with a carer in the carers home but the carer is finding it increasingly more difficult. They live in a different county to me about 60miles away and I would like to look into moving him to a care home nearer to me but I am not sure how this will go. I have eventually managed to get an assessment for him in a couple of weeks which I am hoping will get the ball rolling but I fear from conversations I have had with varying agencies that they want him to stay at home rather than be placed in a home. I realise this is to do with funding as always. What would happen if the carer said he couldn't cope with Dad anymore, is there emergency situation for this?
I am really stressing about it all, like I said, I don't live nearby but try to get to see him every couple of weeks and speak to him every other day, although this is getting more and more difficult as his conversations make no sense or he forgets I'm on the phone and doesn't speak at all. I have a brother who is a liability and as much help as a chocolate teapot, dad has no other family and mum passed 2 years ago. Any advice will be greatly received. Thank you
Unusually, he lives with a carer in the carers home but the carer is finding it increasingly more difficult. They live in a different county to me about 60miles away and I would like to look into moving him to a care home nearer to me but I am not sure how this will go. I have eventually managed to get an assessment for him in a couple of weeks which I am hoping will get the ball rolling but I fear from conversations I have had with varying agencies that they want him to stay at home rather than be placed in a home. I realise this is to do with funding as always. What would happen if the carer said he couldn't cope with Dad anymore, is there emergency situation for this?
I am really stressing about it all, like I said, I don't live nearby but try to get to see him every couple of weeks and speak to him every other day, although this is getting more and more difficult as his conversations make no sense or he forgets I'm on the phone and doesn't speak at all. I have a brother who is a liability and as much help as a chocolate teapot, dad has no other family and mum passed 2 years ago. Any advice will be greatly received. Thank you