SO, if hes never asked about going home is it just when your there, maybe on the days your not he ok and doesn't think about going home, that's how my hubby was, it was only when he saw me that he mentioned it, he was perfectly happy they said . Does he know its Christmas and does he like christmas, maybe he would have been ok staying there ?? My hubby hates christmas always has for all the 59yrs I've been with him. Quite a miserableI have just come from the home.Told dad I’m stepping back as going to spend more time with my mum(divorced from dad and about 2miles down the road,)He isn’t happy about going home and having the carers in more. I have told him that he can go out with them or not.(He has a male carer with him most of Tuesday.Not one of dads favourites as he doesn’t talk..lol) I said as he doesn’t much either they should be alright.
He started to cry then and one of my friends who works there looked at me. They had never seen him do that before.
I told them he is always like that with me.
Dad has been doing a lot more walking with his frame and having a lot more company.
He won’t be doing much of that at his home as he lives alone.
I got told that he never said about going home.
I replied that I phoned you and spoke to you about staying till Xmas as I won’t be around (no public transport).I said You replied “Not particularly “ so I arranged care at home..
He doesn’t remember one day from another .
I said to him that you made the decision so you cannot blame me..
Not a happy chappy.
Ah well..Them’s the breaks!
Bu---er really lol. They do like to do that , turn the hard done by face on and tears, to try and pull at your heart strings lol. I've got wise to it now. But I really hope it all goes as planned for you TNJJ .
Strangely hubby is in quite good spirits today, very unusual, not sleeping so much and actually trying to chat to me in his own way.
I'll wait till the sun downing starts he does all sorts of strange things then, he must have strange dreams then as he chats to himself and shouts but the weirdest thing he laughs out loud and smiles and he never smiles now normaly just a permanent angry face so it looks really strange to see and hear him laughing then
Take card TNJJ keep warm its freezing here on south coast