As dad cannot remember his own address and cannot use a phone.,or even remember to press his lifeline it is going to be fun.
I am prepared to stand back and watch.I fully expect it to be chaos as I order dads pads on the internet so it will be fun..
Dad won’t be happy but hey .He will be able to do his shopping with the carers. He doesn’t have a card as he cannot use one so I will have to make sure he has cash..What fun it is going to be.
Before he went in to “respite “I felt ill and I am so not going there again.
I have ended up very unwell on a couple of occasions due to the stress of sorting care packages out & was amazed at the total stubbornness to follow SS processes to the point of endangering the PWD. Mum supposedly competent & with capacity ended up in hospital for 5 weeks this year because according to GP & SS she had capacity.
my arguments before the hospital stay & sadly after was that yes mum can make decisions but they are poor decisions with consequences. SS felt that was acceptable- so I said ok then & stepped back & let the chaos happen.
honestly it was cruel & heartbreaking process to ensure Mums safety. SS has labelled me the problem as had the GP!
All I can say is proving them wrong with medical evidence has given me no pleasure, just sadness at the horrendous situation the so called authorities “with duty of care “ put a PWD in!
when Mum & Dad have finally travelled their dementia journey & passed I intend to be a very loud voice about the horrendous situation- I cannot undertake this until I can get my emotions under control & need to see the processes through to the end & keep fighting their corner.
in all of this for my own sanity & health I have had to step back, the consequences for both parents have resulted in safeguarding.
Be prepared for the worse case scenarios & hopefully you might be pleasantly surprised.
sending ((((((((((((((big hugs)))))))))))))))))