Hi, I've been off the forum for a week or so, my apologies for the kind and supportive replies.
I'm not at 10 posts yet,so cannot reply.
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Last week as a very strange one for me, but I think it was part of the process of coming to terms with my diagnosis.
We decided to let our families know (not my the youngest three), which wasn't an easy thing to do, but not as was bad as I thought......
Then Monday came along, and with my kids at school and my wife at work I found myself in a strange place, knowing that my demise is going to be a lot sooner than anticipated..
I couldn't focus on my basic daily tasks such as cleaning, laundry etc which and was getting a bit upset due to the real possibility that I'll not be there for their big occassions such as , marriage, graduation, my grandchildren etc.
my wife and I had a long and emotional discussion about our thoughts around this, and thankfully, I think we are both in a better place now.
we do understand that things may not pan as we would hope,but we should be able to talk to them about it and what to expect.
I know that we aren't the first nor the last to go through this, but for us it has been quite a big step taking it all on board.
thanks for your time and support. TeeDee62
I'm not at 10 posts yet,so cannot reply.
I
Last week as a very strange one for me, but I think it was part of the process of coming to terms with my diagnosis.
We decided to let our families know (not my the youngest three), which wasn't an easy thing to do, but not as was bad as I thought......
Then Monday came along, and with my kids at school and my wife at work I found myself in a strange place, knowing that my demise is going to be a lot sooner than anticipated..
I couldn't focus on my basic daily tasks such as cleaning, laundry etc which and was getting a bit upset due to the real possibility that I'll not be there for their big occassions such as , marriage, graduation, my grandchildren etc.
my wife and I had a long and emotional discussion about our thoughts around this, and thankfully, I think we are both in a better place now.
we do understand that things may not pan as we would hope,but we should be able to talk to them about it and what to expect.
I know that we aren't the first nor the last to go through this, but for us it has been quite a big step taking it all on board.
thanks for your time and support. TeeDee62