My Mum 95 has been in her care home for 17 months and has settled well. Recently she's been eating breakfast in the dining room then going back to her bed to sleep. The carers wake her up at lunch time but after lunch in the dining room she goes back to bed. She's woken up again at about 3pm . Has dinner about 4 30 then goes back to bed. On my last visit she was sitting in the lounge but fast asleep and when I tried to wake her she just told me unpleasantly to go away. I stayed for a while and tried to wake her a couple of times but each time she told me to go away. I travel three and a half hours to see her so it's very sad when she doesn't talk to me. Is this a normal development . Should I just reduce the number of times I visit? They have taken a urine test and we are awaiting the result.