Hi all,
My grandmother has exhibited mild signs of cognitive decline for a while now. it has now gotten to the point where she has gotten aggressive with family members, appears to be sundowning, and various other escalations.
We are desperately trying to get her to a doctor. we have contacted the doctor with concerns ahead of time, so they are aware and share our concerns. However, she is absolutely adamant she does not want anyone coming into the room with her or knowing her business (she has never been like this before, always open about her health!)
this means even if she was told to go to a memory clinic we wouldnt know!!! We are at our wits end. our hands are tied until she gets a diagnosis, but how can we get the diagnosis without her medical team being able to tell us what's going on?
Any advice or help appreciated.
My grandmother has exhibited mild signs of cognitive decline for a while now. it has now gotten to the point where she has gotten aggressive with family members, appears to be sundowning, and various other escalations.
We are desperately trying to get her to a doctor. we have contacted the doctor with concerns ahead of time, so they are aware and share our concerns. However, she is absolutely adamant she does not want anyone coming into the room with her or knowing her business (she has never been like this before, always open about her health!)
this means even if she was told to go to a memory clinic we wouldnt know!!! We are at our wits end. our hands are tied until she gets a diagnosis, but how can we get the diagnosis without her medical team being able to tell us what's going on?
Any advice or help appreciated.