I or should I say my mum, was lucky when she became ill. I was single, no children... just mum to worry about. I smile as I type this because so much as I love her ,,,,the lady at times drove me insane. For example. Mum would not settle in bed if the curtains were closed ? When open, shadows cast from her nieghbours trees used to frighten her. Picture me at 3am sawing said trees down!!! Neighbour blamed window cleaner( thats another story). DO try and get someone to cover for you and give yourself/ partner sometime together....was it really water in that glass? So many tears shed and everyone worth it ..x