Hi all , havent been on for a while. Things steadily changing. Had care assessment , mum has too much money to qualify for their help, not that much more but owns home no mortgage etc etc. They did give some help though, we have rails fitted in bathroom , attendance allowance form being completed and didnt know about ct exemption. Mum dipped quite badly over last week, insisted on gp app as thought there maybe infection causing increases behaviour. Told gp about continuous calls, mum crying saying shes scared, not knowing what to do even though we went through it a 100 times. Gp says but shes not hallucinating so thats ok . Insisted on medical check, finally agreed to do urine sample and after listening to her chest sent her for x ray . I get so frustrated, all they want to talk about is why shes feeling scared... wanted to scream wouldnt you xxxxx be if you didnt know the day, time, what to eat or what you have to do ...