I agree with Jale, I have over the last few years had my Uncle go into care with Lewy Body, and am currently caring for my mum with mixed dementia, at home. I would strongly advise you not to have mum at home. In care there will be carers there 24/7, a mix of staff means none get completely burned out, she will have company of her own age, see a GP regularly, maybe enjoy activities. You can visit as much as you want and join in. My Aunty Jan even went and had her Christmas with Uncle Ted, and on occasions stayed with him on a put me up bed. If mums at your home there is you. That’s where the buck stops, and getting help may not be easy. You’ll probably end up exhausted, depressed and stressed, not only struggling to keep yourself ok, but struggling to keep mum ok too. And any move will mean she may get worse or become unsettled. If you move her to your house, and then she has to go into care anyway, that’s two moves, two upsets. Think carefully. Sorry to be all doom and gloom.