Hi.I haven’t been on TP for a while as Dad had settled down in his care home and was happy. He has now started the aggression and angry stage and I’m getting phone calls from the home 2 or 3 times a week on top of my normal visits(I actually visit 3 times a week as I only live 10 minutes away)to go and calm him down.The consultant has upped his quetipine and his rivastigmine patches but in the last 2 days he has been really difficult to calm down.I visited Friday morning as usual and he was very cross so I stayed until lunch.I had another phone call in the afternoon so went round again. Then yesterday I had another phone call.He had been in a ladies room twice in the night shouting and then in the afternoon he had grabbed another lady by the arms and shook her quite hard.This has been more upsetting as he has been very good friends with this lady for 10 years,going on holidays etc until she was diagnosed with Vascular dementia. About 6 weeks ago he had shingles on his face,which I presume has bought on this downturn .It has left him with a palsy and I’m an meant to take him to the hospital tomorrow to have his eye looked at. I am actually really worried about taking him.How can I be afraid of my own dad? He is so volatile at the moment and he’s a large strong man ,not easy to distract when he’s angry.Not sure what to do but I will talk to the carehome when I visit later and see what they think.I must admit I’m wondering if this carehome is now suitable for him.Thanks for reading and any advice would be really helpful.