Dad wants me to be his carer and leave work so he can see his wife up care home. Been at same place for 25 years so giving up my job will be hard. Got a month to decide as dad getting rehab for his stroke. Trying to see my mum every day after work is hard and making me feel tired a lot don't drive so when I leave and get home it's a 13 hour day for me thinking about going every other day to see her but worried about not getting enough fluid food wise she doing OK.