Hoping someone can come up with a helpful suggestion. My mum has no toileting problem as regards incontinence. The problem is she has the odd trouble getting off the toilet, usually when going to bed. I suspect a large part of this is tiredness. There are hand rails but my mum seems unable or reluctant to use these. I have to lift her off these circumstances. The ironic thing is she goes during the night and has no problem getting herself up. Are there any other aides I can consider? I work two 6 hour night shifts a week having given up full time work to care for my mum. I do not want to lose my one real contact with the outside world, but I could not leave my mum potentially stuck on a toilet for hours during the night. Hope someone can offer up a solution. Thank you for reading this thread.