Help!!
I feel like I am swimming in a fog - Mum in Law seemingly suffering with dementia, came on SO SUDDENLY, so dramatically, over the last few months, rushed to hospital after 999 being dialed, went in to hosp moaning and talking properly, and fairly strong, 2 visits on and she is a frail old thing who can hardly talk at all - at a total loss for what to do next!!! We want to care for her at home! but can we?? are we strong enough to give up our total life?? and try and adapt our own house to cope!! or thats how it feels right now, she is loved to bits, recently lost her husband last year, then suddenly lost her only live in daughter too - she is already suffering badly with rhumatoid arthritis, wheelchair bound and was unable to do much except transfer to chair etc anyway. God this is an awful awful disease. We are talking round in circles and getting nowhere fast, if we get a carer package it would prob cost as much as a home would cost, would she be happy and cared for, and how long would any money any of us have last!! HELP had to voice my frustration somewhere, no idea where else to go.
My heart goes out to all of you suffering the same questions, a lovely lovely lady, turned into a bad tempered screaming muttering monster at times - and I have a husband who has recently lost the whole rest of his family too - Lost
I feel like I am swimming in a fog - Mum in Law seemingly suffering with dementia, came on SO SUDDENLY, so dramatically, over the last few months, rushed to hospital after 999 being dialed, went in to hosp moaning and talking properly, and fairly strong, 2 visits on and she is a frail old thing who can hardly talk at all - at a total loss for what to do next!!! We want to care for her at home! but can we?? are we strong enough to give up our total life?? and try and adapt our own house to cope!! or thats how it feels right now, she is loved to bits, recently lost her husband last year, then suddenly lost her only live in daughter too - she is already suffering badly with rhumatoid arthritis, wheelchair bound and was unable to do much except transfer to chair etc anyway. God this is an awful awful disease. We are talking round in circles and getting nowhere fast, if we get a carer package it would prob cost as much as a home would cost, would she be happy and cared for, and how long would any money any of us have last!! HELP had to voice my frustration somewhere, no idea where else to go.
My heart goes out to all of you suffering the same questions, a lovely lovely lady, turned into a bad tempered screaming muttering monster at times - and I have a husband who has recently lost the whole rest of his family too - Lost