Just thought I would do an update. Its been pretty emotional since I last posted.
Mums condition is difficult to try and explain now, as she had the 2 bleeds, and the Dr thinks its an ulcer. She now has blood in her stools and very anaemic. Her feet and ankles are very swollen something she has never suffered with before. The Dr goes in every day to check on Mum. Somedays she is on a high and sometimes she is advised to go to bed to rest. Somedays she will eat others she wont eat or drink. She is on medicine for her stomach, ankles and is having pain relief.
I have never been on such an emotional roller coaster as this, one minute I think thats it I'm losing her and the next she ralies round.
To top the lot I ended up having my nephew here for a week on suicide watch, I cracked in the end and had to take him back for members of the family to help out, I just can't deal with his emotional problems as well as my own, and unfortunately his dad (my brother in law) got it full pelt on Sunday. Fortunately my in laws backed me and said it was about time somebody said something to him anyway.
My sons girlfriend has given birth to a little girl yesterday, although it isn't his child the baby was born 7 weeks early and she is now in an incubater.
Dad is being fine with me which under these circumstances is a blessing, no more outbursts
.... he probably knows he also could run the risk of me cracking and that is a side Dad don't want to see, so it's him now treading carefully.
The home are being brill, I really couldn't ask for more.
Many thanks for all the tremendous support and heartfelt thoughts you have sent us, they have really helped us. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx