Hi All - I’m a complete newbie here.
I live overseas and hadn’t seen family for two years. During my recent visit my brother-in-law told me he believes my sister has some form of dementia. I shan’t go into detail but the narrative is convincing and my own observations tend to confirm.
He saw their doctor to ask for help and advice and was told by the doctor that he couldn’t (or wouldn’t) do anything unless my sister sought help herself. My brother-in-law raised the subject with my sister resulting in a two-day distressing ‘meltdown’ from her before she, in his words “just seems to have forgotten all about it”. So he’s been baulked at the first hurdle. Where does he go from here?
I want to help but I’m 2,000 miles away. Any suggestions gratefully received.
I live overseas and hadn’t seen family for two years. During my recent visit my brother-in-law told me he believes my sister has some form of dementia. I shan’t go into detail but the narrative is convincing and my own observations tend to confirm.
He saw their doctor to ask for help and advice and was told by the doctor that he couldn’t (or wouldn’t) do anything unless my sister sought help herself. My brother-in-law raised the subject with my sister resulting in a two-day distressing ‘meltdown’ from her before she, in his words “just seems to have forgotten all about it”. So he’s been baulked at the first hurdle. Where does he go from here?
I want to help but I’m 2,000 miles away. Any suggestions gratefully received.