Hi Just need some advice, the MIL agreed to respite care about a month ago and its all sorted for middle next month - we had to get her agreement with the doctor (as she still has some capacity) and then the social worker came to assess her needs and all went well, before this she kicked off on several occasions refusing respite care. Anyway at the moment she has forgotten we are going on holiday and she will be going into respite care in a lovely home for 2 weeks. Do you thinks its best just to keep it quiet until we pack her case or say something a bit before that to get her prepared? She has lucid days and not so lucid days but short term retention is deteriorating so wonder if there is much point as it may also stress her (and us!) Thanks