My mother was diagnosed recently with Alzheimer's, she is 89, so not surprised she has some form of dementia. She is in an Extra Care Home facility (she has a one-bedroom flat) but I don't think it is the best place for her to receive the help she needs. I am at present waiting to hear from a Social Worker to see if she can be moved closer to me as I am unable to help her as she is over 100 miles away. The Social Worker wants to know more about her needs. I am not sure what to say as I can see her needs, but last time they were involved they insisted that my mum could manage on her own in this Extra Care Home. At the time it seemed like the right move, but since the move last year, mum seems to have deteriorated and no doubt another move would probably have the same effect. However, I would like her to be closer to me as she has few visitors and trying to sort her care from a distance is really difficult. My mum, in theory, has said she would like to move closer to me but it will depend on if the Council can fund her.
At the Extra Care Home, they say mum is ok as she is. They don't want her to move. But she is unhappy, gets frustrated with her failing memory and has missed various hospital appointments because she forgot about them. I just want to do what is best for my mum. Any advice on how I can do what is best would be appreciated.
At the Extra Care Home, they say mum is ok as she is. They don't want her to move. But she is unhappy, gets frustrated with her failing memory and has missed various hospital appointments because she forgot about them. I just want to do what is best for my mum. Any advice on how I can do what is best would be appreciated.