Just wanted a little advice from anyone who has genuinely been in our situation please. Mam was admitted to residential care 4 weeks ago. Ever since, between the 4 of us, we have visited her daily and taken her out all day (as that is what we have always done, and what she is used to) returning her about 4-5pm, my dad then sits with her until 8pm. Returning her is getting increasingly difficult, she hates going back,she hates being locked in and can’t understand why we are doing this to her and tries to get out at every opportunity. The care home is lovely but seriously lacks stimulation/activities (can’t get the vacancy filled) and when we’ve tried to sit in there with her, as soon as she sees us she wants out no matter how hard we try to distract her, get her to socialise with the other residents. Today we have decided not to visit her for the full weekend but we know it’s going to kill her (and us) not to do so... has anyone else had a LO SO determined not to be there and how did you make it work?.. any advice appreciated x