My father has started saying inappropriate things to me, usually towards the end of a short visit. Things like “can you leave me a pair of dirty knickers “ or knocking on the door and saying “I was hoping to catch you putting your knickers on”. I respond calmly and firmly, reminding him that it’s not appropriate and that I’m his daughter. But it upsets me so much, on many levels. I guess I’d like to know whether others experience this too?