Taking things gently with my dear old geezer who's finally (after some 2.5 years) got a diagnosis of Dementia in Alzheimer's. Having discussions and explanations about the 'now' situation. Then moving on to talk about and discuss the potentials of the 'then' situation. Softly-softly - not too much at once. Uncomfortable chats but it all seemed to be OK with some tears, hugs, laughs, plans and ideas for our future.
(I know I need to do a ton of stuff including LPA and he says it's a great idea. Notes taken, in bullet points plus my own version of detail on the other side of the paper..... blah, blah, blah.)
Phew .... thought we were getting somewhere.
Started to re-introduce the topic this evening. OMG and ...... apparently I'm now talking total carp, I need a reality check, what's the problem?
It's taken so long to get to this point and it feels like .... I dunno ..... like we've got nowhere at all and even moved backwards....
Yay - just feel better having whinged. (Roll of drums ...... "And Goodnight, good people").
(I know I need to do a ton of stuff including LPA and he says it's a great idea. Notes taken, in bullet points plus my own version of detail on the other side of the paper..... blah, blah, blah.)
Phew .... thought we were getting somewhere.
Started to re-introduce the topic this evening. OMG and ...... apparently I'm now talking total carp, I need a reality check, what's the problem?
It's taken so long to get to this point and it feels like .... I dunno ..... like we've got nowhere at all and even moved backwards....
Yay - just feel better having whinged. (Roll of drums ...... "And Goodnight, good people").