Have you had a good or bad experience when registering a PoA with a UK bank?
Hello everyone.
I have Power of Attorney Finance & Property for my dear ma.
I've been dealing with her banking for a number of years and have now registered the PoA with First Direct so that I can do it officially.
It's been quite a painful process but I've finally been granted telephone access and have a debit card.
Great. But now I'd like to do it online. This is not possible unless:
1. I sign a declaration stating that mum is mentally incapable of doing her banking,
2. Mum's debit card is deactivated,
3. her telephone access is revoked and
4. her cheque books destroyed.
I feel this to be too black and white. All or nothing.
On the face of it you could say it's fair enough; either she's capable or she isn't. And in any case, who would want a lady with the free flight of dementia to have opportunity to spend frivolously.
But no. Mum couldn't tell you anything about her finances. But she'd happily - and with appropriate restraint - shop and pay with her debit card, or send a cheque to a friend to cover a lunch.
So the rub is: to adopt modern day banking with First Direct I must impose these restrictions on my mum. Clearly I won't - it would undermine her confidence and is way off my kindness register!
After some deep quizzing, First Direct ditched "policy" as an excuse stating that their systems force the restrictions. Fair enough. Honest. A bit daft. And hopefully my feedback will affect some change.
Have you had similar / better / worse experiences?
Thanks for reading!
Hello everyone.
I have Power of Attorney Finance & Property for my dear ma.
I've been dealing with her banking for a number of years and have now registered the PoA with First Direct so that I can do it officially.
It's been quite a painful process but I've finally been granted telephone access and have a debit card.
Great. But now I'd like to do it online. This is not possible unless:
1. I sign a declaration stating that mum is mentally incapable of doing her banking,
2. Mum's debit card is deactivated,
3. her telephone access is revoked and
4. her cheque books destroyed.
I feel this to be too black and white. All or nothing.
On the face of it you could say it's fair enough; either she's capable or she isn't. And in any case, who would want a lady with the free flight of dementia to have opportunity to spend frivolously.
But no. Mum couldn't tell you anything about her finances. But she'd happily - and with appropriate restraint - shop and pay with her debit card, or send a cheque to a friend to cover a lunch.
So the rub is: to adopt modern day banking with First Direct I must impose these restrictions on my mum. Clearly I won't - it would undermine her confidence and is way off my kindness register!
After some deep quizzing, First Direct ditched "policy" as an excuse stating that their systems force the restrictions. Fair enough. Honest. A bit daft. And hopefully my feedback will affect some change.
Have you had similar / better / worse experiences?
Thanks for reading!