After 2 years of hospital visits with my 98yr Mum with Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia, her Consultant passed away very suddenly. He promised to slways continue with her care abd I trusted him. He very carefully gave her diagnosis of which didn't really register and we've always ensured no one ever mentions the 'D' word as she is petrifed of the disease. Today her visit was totally marred by the new Consultant giving her a booklet....Dementia Care....she's cried for a couple of hours today, I've tried to cover it by saying its a pamphlet name covering all types of Memory loss and hers is just her age. To make matters worse she was discharged from their list as she's not 'psycotic' and doesn't need regular reviews. I'm devastated as I feel all potential support has been withdrawn just as she has progressed to nightmares, lack of general memory (she knows she's upset today but cant remember why) lack of interest in eating, choking when drinking, double incontinence etc etc Social Services have discharged her as she's living with us and would be self funding anyway. No carers as I do her personal care, and our local Dementia Helpline never answers their phone. I'm tied to the house day and night and just want to be able to offload occasionally....any thoughts please??? Thank you