Please don't comment if your going to judge me but my nan (85) is now living in a nursing home which she hates but she can not live alone anymore. She was such an outgoing person travelled all over the world and the country on her own, went out with friends and even still played badminton/volleyball up until about 5 years ago. She went into care early this year and has gone downhill very quickly my nans body is overall healthy no problems other than vascular dementia but she is not my nan anymore I was one of her careers and to see how much she has changed in the last year is heartbreaking. Me and my nan were so close and I no from her seeing friends and family end up in homes she never wanted to end up like this I love my nan to bits and don't want her to die but I don't want to watch this scared, frail, crying when we leave wonderful women to suffer she would hate to know how her life has turned out and that she can't even dress herself etc. Does anyone else out their feel like this or am I just being selfish.
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